5.15.2006

Our Weekend and Our Family


This weekend was one of our busiest. I'm sure you can relate, as May is most often a busy month for everyone (much like December). Friday night we were double-booked for two banquets: the high school teacher appreciation banquet and the middle school banquet. We found out one was from 5:30-7:00 and the other from 7:00-9:30, so we went to both! We just tried not to eat too much!

Saturday morning we went on an all day bike ride (or as Nate would say, a walk in the park compared to the bike trip we have planned). I have so many pictures and stories to tell you from all these exciting events, that I can't even think where to begin! Saturday afternoon we went to our Filipina Cebuano teacher's house for a birthday party and then biked home in the rain to change in time for the awards banquet at the high school. Finally we woke up Sunday morning and sang in church for Mother's Day and then got a wonderful nap that afternoon!

Now we are finishing up school and writing exams and grading papers. That is why you have not been able to see our wonderful pictures lately. I wanted to compliment my Uncle Keith's blog (link to left) and how he has kept us up to date with our family events! We really love the photos and the window into life in Nebraska. We are so proud of my mom for her fun bike trip that she organized. We are also so proud of my grandma for the groundbreaking of the international quilt study center with a reading room dedicated to her! We wish we could have been there, but these pictures bring the event to life!

We love you all! Thank you for praying for us and keeping in touch with us!

5.11.2006

Flat Stanley In the Philippines


I went to our mailbox yesterday and got a letter from my second grade buddy, Zach, from Missouri. Inside the envelope was a letter and a cut-out of a little boy named Flat Stanley. Zach asked me to show Stanley around the Philippines and take some pictures for him, so I decided to go all out to create a learning experience for Zach. I can’t wait to write the scrapbook and mail Stanley back!

It turns out this guy is famous! Lots of kids have read the book “Flat Stanley” by Jeff Brown. It is about a boy who gets flattened by a bulletin board in the night and experiences many adventures because he is really thin. So since Stanley has become our first visitor to the Philippines (and I know you would love to get mailed here for less than $1) I decided to give him the full tour. Here are some of our pictures together!

It’s amazing how many people we have cheered up because of Stanley! We took him to the mall, in a taxi, to the market with fish; we fed him a mango shake, walked him to school and even let the students read with him in the library. My sixth grade students decided to invite him to the banquet tomorrow night, so they are going to make him a suit to wear. I sure am going to miss Stanley once he travels back to the U.S.
Stanley takes a ride in a taxi
Stanley gets his first taste of fresh fish
Pablo reads to Stanley in the library
Kuya Nate and Stanley slirp Mango shakes together

5.10.2006

Musical Photos

Praise the Lord for every aspect of the musical! All our prayers and yours were answered, and more. The Lord was glorified, the gospel was preached, and many people came to hear the message and music. I wrote you an email with more detail, but here are some photos for you to see. Praise the Lord and thank you for praying!

Nate encouraged the kids before the musical by reading the Word and praying with them.

I was sitting at the sound booth helping with technical work, helping direct the drama and working the powerpoint.
At the end of the musical PJ's dad invited people to receive Christ as their Savior and Lord.
We were so thankful after the musical was done; God had answered all our prayers!

5.04.2006

Dress Rehearsal Photos


Today the dress rehearsal went great! I pause from time to time and praise God, for I believe He truly is present and is answering many people's prayers. Tomorrow morning at 7:40AM the we will present for the first time "J-Force To the Rescue" for the chapel students (middle school and high school). Then in the evening we will do it all over again, in the dark, for the parents.

We are so excited about what God has done in little lives so far. It is great hearing kids quote their lines, "Jesus loves you." Hearing them singing, "Claim Jesus Christ, you'll live forever in Him!" Wow, we are praising God and praying that HE will be glorified and HE will be known in our city.

Thank you for praying for us. It will be a very busy day tomorrow, so you won't hear from us (besides, you will be likely sleeping anyway!). Please be praying for us and for the kids. Here are some pictures from the rehearsal today. PRaise the Lord!

5.03.2006

Charlie Chokes--(Or Does He Really?)


Often as we lay in bed we suddenly hear a scruffing noise up in our attic and down the walls. There is "something" living up there and running around. "Well," I thought, "we are either going to have to get up there and kill him or we are going to have to accept him as part of our Becker family." So we named the unknown creature "Charlie."

Yesterday as we were opening the front door to leave for school I stopped mid-step and dropped my jaw! Stuck in between the glass window pane and the screen was none other than...

"Charlie! It's you! You're trying to reach us and meet us!" I had accepted him so much as part of the family I never even screamed. This is a first for me.

We quickly shut all the glass panes so as to trap him in there and deal with him later. We actually forgot about Charlie until we returned home later that night. Then as Nate unlocked the door, I saw that creepy creature's tail hanging down in the shadows. Oh yeah, I forgot about him.

I heard our neighbor's voices and thought Nate had better bring them over for back-up. I certainly wasn't going to be able to assist Nate in this assasination. Shanon, who grew up in Asia, thought it would be best to trap him between the metal of the screen and then pin him to death. Charlie knew we were after him (by we I do not mean I had any hand in this!). Charlie ran back and forth, up and down until finally Nate and Shannon pinned his little squeaking body.

One more scene chasing Charlie until finally he was pinned and choked to death. I was up the stairs watching from a distance, but once I knew he was dead I was able to record the event here on camera for you to witness. Nate is my hero once again. First he swallowed a live fish for me, and now he captured a sneaky rat for me. What a man! The only problem is that when we went to bed Nate said, "I wonder if that was really Charlie, or if there are more of 'them' upstairs." How do you think I slept last night?

5.01.2006

Basketball Dominating Jessica


Today was a first for me (Nate). It was the very first time I watched Jessica play team basketball! Today was Sports Fest for our church (it is Labor Day on May 1 in the Philippines). So, we had the joy of facilitating some fun ultimate frisbee games, teaching the majority of the people how to play frisbee for the very first time.

Then, Jessica played basketball with the Filipinas--it was hilarious to watch! Let me tell you, this was more entertaining than Lebron James and Jermaine O'Neil (notice which O'Neil I mentioned). There is nothing quite like watching 10 super-excited 5 foot even ladies all bunched together scrambling for the ball and fouling each other left and right. Plus, with the amount of traveling some of those ladies were doing on the court, they could have taken a trip to Canada!

I was proud of my Jessica for giving her all out there and making some key assists and baskets and even some rebounds--she was like a center or power forward, at 5 feet 2 inches--it was sweet! I didn't know women basketball could be that fun and humorous!

4.30.2006

Go Bananas!--A Cool Creamy Treat Idea


When I was sick earlier this week my nurse (our principal's wife) told me I should eat lots of bananas. She told me that they are really good if frozen. Well I remember freezing grapes with Cheri in college, and those were really yummy treats, so I thought I would try it.

Frozen bananas are GREAT! They are cold and sweet and healthy! Not only do I now have my new favorite healthy alternative to ice cream (which we as Beckers have agreed not to stock our freezer with)...the frozen bananas are REALLY good mixed in with fruit yogurt. So try it! It is the best cool, creamy treat that will keep you going strong!

I had several laughs when looking for pictures for this post because I found two sites that some of you might want to check out for fun. There is actually a banana museum that you can see on www.bananamuseum.com and then check out www.banana.com for recipes and even medical benefits to eating bananas. Go bananas!

4.27.2006

Council For Canon


I have always wanted to revisit my college Bible Introduction notes and book, but I never seemed to have the time. The course I took was incredible, taught by the man who wrote the book, Peter Wegner. I had questions about the Bible and how it got to us that actually were bothering my faith enough. Those questions were settled in that BI class. Well, as my prof. Guenter used to say, "The best way to learn something is to teach it." Now it is my job to teach the 6th graders how the Bible came to us, so I finally get to take the time to review my BI notes and book!

I decided to create a "Council For Canon" in which we as a class would examine all the books of the (Protestant) Bible and also the Apocrypha (because of some Roman Catholic background students in my class) and some Psudepigrapha (False Writings--like Book of Jubilee, 1 Enoch, 2 Baruch). We will even examine the "Gospel of Thomas" and ask why some of these books are not under the covers of "our" Bibles.

After one session of council with my 6th grade, I began to wonder if that was such a good idea. They all affirmed the 5 books of Law, but when we got to the Prophets (using the Hebrew order), four students put their thumbs down or to the side when we voted to affirm or deny. "OK, let's find out why you had your thumbs down. What evidence did not meet the criteria?" (I gave them the 5 points of criteria that the early church fathers used in their council). "Do you have additional questions?" Four students genuinely were not convinced by the evidence I had worked so hard to collect for them.


Last night I tossed and turned about the council. I had dreams about the class and even woke up at 1 am to pray about it. "Am I shaking their faith? Am I shattering their confidence in the Bible as God's Inspired Word?" Of course this was what I originally wanted--a challenge to their naieve acceptance of everything and a chance to teach them to think and evaluate evidence. Finally, during my prayers, God's Spirit quietly reminded me: "It is MY Word, and I will not let it return to me void." Yes! God is Sovereign over His Word! What was I taking the responsibility for?

Day 2 Council: I brought more evidence to the four young 6th grade men (and to the rest of the class). One of the four became convinced beyond doubt when I had them look up Matthew 5.17-18. One of the four would not vote and chose to pass. One of them finally conceded a piece of evidence that I could not bring, but he trusted me about. The fourth one just followed his friend in passing a vote.

I am GLAD they will not just vote like their friends! I am GLAD they chose to think about the documents. Now I just ask your PRAYERS that God will use the council to strengthen the faith of my students, and even bring some of the unbelieving to faith. If this is how they treat the prophets, what will they say about the General Epistles?! Oh, Lord, we claim your promise: "so is my word that goes out from my mouth: It will not return to me empty, but will accomplish what I desire and acheive the purpose for which I sent it." Is. 55.11

4.26.2006

God Is My Strength


"O my Strength, I sing praise to you;
you, O God, are my fortress,
my loving God."
~Psalm 59.17

"The righteous cry out,
and the Lord hears them;
he delivers them from all their troubles."
~Psalm 34.17

Yes, I was sick the last couple days. It was not fun, but Nate has been true to his vows "in sickness and in health!" What a sweet husband he has been!

God has been so gracious to me and has restored my soul and my body. While I layed in bed sick and away from the classroom with my students I had a lot of time to pray and ponder. The above verses ministered to me as I asked God for healing in my weak body.

Sometimes you wonder why we get sick, but yesterday as God encouraged me from His word I actually reached the point where I could thank Him for the extra time I had to spend in prayer and in His Word. Now, granted, there were also times when I wanted to return to America and see my Mommy, but there were times of solitude and peace too.

That is what this waterfall symbolizes (also because I am thinking of my brother Daniel in South America!). God's peace is flowing through my soul like a river and waterfall. His joy gushes out of my heart and He has brought healing to my body. "O my Strength, I sing praise to you!"

4.25.2006

Get well soon Honey Jessica!

Yes, it is true. My wonderful wife Jessica (who has written the majority of these blog entries so far) has been sick the past couple of days. Today, she is staying home sick, resting and on medication, mostly fighting a virus. She has been very weak the past few days and we pray that she will get better soon. I love my Jessica!
-Nate

4.20.2006

Archeology Scavenger Hunt


"Class, I have hidden 16 items that represent the ancient writing materials the Bible was written on. You job as young archeologists is to go out to find them and then bring them back, sign your name and post it here on the board. But don't dig up any of the school's plants! GO!"

My 6th grade students excitedly ran out the two classroom doors to see if they could be the first one to find some stone, parchment, ostraca, papyrus, leather, parchment or other. I, as their teacher, had even more fun watching them search and discover my hiding spots! I did not make this easy but caused them to search for clues like true archeologists need to do.

As I was making this fun lesson plan I remembered how my mom once gave me a teddy bear scavenger hunt for my birthday, and I still remember it to this day. I thought, "Perhaps if I create a learning experience like that, they will remember what it is like to be an archeologist discovering important Biblical documents like the Dead Sea Scrolls!"

"I found the last one, Mrs. Becker!" Luke shouted from across the field as he ran back to the classroom. We took a crazy group photo as most archeology teams do after an important dig. Then I was most rewarded when Luke said, "Can we do this again tomorrow? That was fun!" I hope it was not only fun but a wonderful learning experience for them that we will continue to build upon in the coming days.

4.16.2006

Christ Is Alive For Ever and Ever!


He is risen! He is risen indeed! Easter is my favorite holiday of the year. We get to celebrate the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead and his victory over sin and death. We get to sing His praises and read all the wonderful passages in the Bible that are miraculous eyewitness accounts of God’s power. One verse I never associated with Easter before really stood out to me today. Revelation 1.18 “I am the Living One; I was dead, and behold I am alive for ever and ever!”

It is hard to realize truly that Jesus was dead. In the Philippines on Good Friday it is eerily silent because most Roman Catholics believe that God is actually dead. Some even have a statue of Jesus that they put in a casket and proceed into church like a funeral. But we know that it is written, “Nor did he enter heaven to offer himself again and again…but now he has appeared ONCE FOR ALL…to do away with sin” (Heb.9). He is alive forever and ever and He is coming soon!

Nate and I sang a special music in church today that I just loved to sing! It was “The Easter Song”—Hear the bells ringing. My favorite line is “The angel up on the tombstone said he is risen, just as he said. Quickly, now, go tell his disciples that Jesus Christ is no longer dead!” Then as a postlude I was able to play the same melody on the violin as Nate accompanied me. I wish my mom could have been here to enjoy!

It was so precious after the service to hear a mother tell me: “My five year old daughter wants to learn the violin. She was outside playing on the swings, but when she heard you playing the violin she ran in to listen and just stood still watching you as you played for the Lord!” What a joy to share music with the little children and show them how they can worship Him too with instruments! Joy to the World!

4.14.2006

Filipinos Crucified For Good Friday


I'm so grieved and shocked at the annual tradition here in the Philippines during Holy Week. Thousands of Filipinos celebrate Easter every year, with some penitents following in the footsteps of Jesus Christ even up to the point of being nailed to a cross. They do it to atone for their sin, but what they do not understand is that Jesus Christ already paid for their sin ONCE FOR ALL when He defeated sin and death and rose from the grave.

Following are some pictures and info from the BBC to give you a better idea what this tradition is like. Please pray that more will choose to celebrate Easter instead and put their faith in Jesus for salvation.

Real nails are used for the crucifixions though the devotees generally stay on the cross for minutes, not days.

Hooded flagellants mimic the crucifixion before whipping themselves with chains to absolve them of their sins.

A flagellant aims to share the pain of Jesus as he is beaten by a man with glass fragments embedded in a piece of wood. Being the hot, dry, summer season, the tropical heat of the sun relects the sweat and blood as they beat their backs to a bloody pulp with bamboo "cat-of-nine tails" whips. These whips are made from bamboo. They make barely visible slices across each other's backs with homemade glass disks made from coke bottles imbedded in wooden mallots.

4.11.2006

Nine Month Anniversary


Yesterday, April 10th, was our 9 month anniversary! It has been the best nine months of my life! I praise God for Nate and I love him so much! People say it just gets better, so I can't even imagine!

I remember the year 2003 when I was a nomad wandering around the planet trying to find out where I was supposed to live and what I was supposed to do. God encouraged me at that time with the message from Habakkuk and even gave me a song:

Just wait and you'll be amazed
For I'm about to do
Something that you won't believe
Even if I told you
So just wait for it though it linger
Live by faith

I really felt I was in a valley and I didn't have any idea how God was going to answer the promise to that song in my life.

Then, as I was about to marry Nate on July 10th in the best year of my life (2005), I remembered the song suddenly. I thought about how God had brought me to the Philippines, given me a ministry of teaching that was perfectly suited to me and my gifts and education, given me joy and music to praise Him with, and given me a man better than I had even dreamed of. I thought about all this and suddenly the song came to me again:

"Something that you won't believe even if I told you."

Yes! Truly the Lord fulfilled His promise to me! My waiting has been fulfilled in the greatest joy of my life: ministering with and being married to my wonderful husband Nate. Thank You LORD! You have truly amazed me!

4.06.2006

Students Write Their Own Psalm


My 9th grade OT students just handed in their Psalms project in which the last page was a Psalm they had written of their own. I was really impressed with how hard they worked on the project and I wanted to share one of my student's Psalms with you!

PSALM 151
A Psalm of Andrea. A lament.

God, you know how I am struggling.
I need you to carry me through this time.

Every time I have cried out to you, you have rescued me,
delivering me from my trouble.

You have never forgotten me.
Now, as I enter a new and uncertain time in my life,
I need you to be my comfort and my guide.

I know that you won't leave me,
and that I can always count on you to be my friend.

Please hear me and help me to feel your presence
every minute of my life.

You are my God, and I will be faithful to you
even when I face difficulties.

Thank you for being the most consistent friend I could ever have.
You are my Jesus!

HOMEWORK FOR MRS. BECKER'S BLOG CLASS: TRY WRITING YOUR OWN PSALM OF LAMENT OR PRAISE! YOU CAN POST IT IN THE COMMENTS SPACE FOR ALL TO ENJOY.

4.02.2006

Are We Cheating Our Gifted Students?

As Jessica just wrote, we had a fubulous experience at the Teachers' Conference we attended in Manila. Several of the sessions I attended were related to music and/or dance, which were helpful. Two of the sessions, however, discussed the needs (emotional, social, academic...) of our gifted students. The arguments of the speaker were that gifted students are falling through the cracks in our schools and are not given the attention they deserve. We put lots of energy into the special needs' students (for good reason, of course, since they surely deserve all the love and help we can give them). But, in our focus and attention of the special needs students, we often forget about the needs of our academically gifted ones.

These two sessions on gifted students (one was called, "Why give 'more' to those who already 'have it already'?") greatly intrugued me and caused me to think back to my childhood and upbringing years. I thought about the factors, whether they were environmental or intra-personal, that caused me to pursue certain talents and academic subjects.

You see, we are all gifted in certain areas with the potential to do enormous things with that gift. But, it is only if/when we go through certain processes and developments that the gift evolves into a talent. Why did I pursue some gifts that I had the potential for but did not pursue others? Some gifts never ever became a talent for me--why?! It is very fascinating! Maybe it was environmental, outside conditions, like people in my life who either encouraged me or discouraged me to develop a gift. Maybe some resources and facilities/money were more available for me to hone/develop a certain talent where in other areas the resources were not available so the gift was never developed into a talent. Maybe it was the environment at home (whether negative or positive) that motivated me or discouraged me to develop the talent.

Perhaps the developmental factors in my upbringing years were more intra-personal. Was I internally embarrassed to develop a certain gift? Was I disciplined and motivated in one area more than another? Were there certain fears/anxieties in my heart that blocked me from developing the gift? Did I feel pride (in the positive sense) when I was able to accomplish and develop a certain gift? Did that motivate me to run to the limits and go all out? Or did I over-analyze what others might think and enslave myself to fear?


We know that many gifted students (students with high IQ's or with exceptional potential) often under-achieve and "dumb-down" in their education because they are not challenged enough and can get away with mediocrity. These gifted and naturally intelligent students are our possible future leaders and world-changers, so why do we not better invest in their individual needs to excel to their fullest potential?! Instead, we often allow them to slide through school as average students never ever to realize their full potential. We probably do this because we can get away with it--they won't fall behind, but though won't excel to the heights either.

The speaker also discussed emotional and social issues that gifted students experience because of their differences--we need to meet those needs as well.


A huge argument of the session was for acceleration and/or enhancement of academically gifted students--this is, of course, a major issue in educational circles. The speaker argued that if we accelerate and give special attention to naturally gifted athletes and musicians (by putting them on the varsity teams and having them start in the varsity games, playing them against teams of equal ability, teaching them private music lessons and providing extra music contests and clinics for the talented musicians), why don't we do the same thing with those who are gifted in academics, like the Maths, Sciences, languages, humanities (I realize that we already do this a little but perhaps not enough). These could be our future Einsteins and Ronald Reagans but instead might fall through the cracks if we don't seek them out and meet their needs.

Of course, sports and music seem to be more accepted areas of excellence in the peer-culture of our students (you are practically worshipped if you are a sports star in your school), whereas excellence in academics such as poetry, writing, the Maths and Sciences, and logic are sometimes viewed in a negative light (a students risks being called a nerd or a brain if he excel academically). We as teachers, parents, and adults need to praise academic excellence as much as we do in the sport and music worlds.


Allow me to close with the end of a paper that our Keynote Speaker had written: "If we deny gifted children the right to optimal development of their potential we are not only violating the principles of equity by denying them what Beazley (1984) called 'the courtesy and grace of an appropriate education', but we are failing to provide, for the generation following, the national resource of developed intellectual talent which is essential if our nations are to survive, and grow."