Journey to Contentment

For 12 weeks the 12 ladies met at our house for a Bible study: "Calm My Anxious Heart--A Woman's Guide to Finding Contentment" by Linda Dillow. I met with Emi on Fridays to teach her in English, and then Wednesday she would lead it in Cebuano. Ladies lives were transformed, scripture was memorized, and their husbands grew more hungry to know God as a result of seeing their lives.

The ladies performed a beautiful native worship dance for their husbands. They were singing about how they want to be godly wives and mothers for the Lord.

At the end, the husbands stood beside their wives as they committed their way to the Lord. The women want to live lives of contentment and joy by the Word and the Spirit. It was such a blessing that ALL 12 husbands came to support their wives, even though some of them do not yet know the Lord personally.

Here is the fun group! I was so thankful for what God did to bring these people into our lives. May the Lord continue to help everyone live out what they learned, especially me!

We don't really celebrate American Thanksgiving here, but we did have quite a feast on Sunday after the special event. We had a Filipino favorite--lechon baboy (roasted pig). They also made other specialties like Buko salad (coconut salad), kinilaw (raw fish with vegetables), and a very rare dish made from the pig's blood. I think Elijah wonders if the pig is still alive!

Precious Moments

Look at these two! Observe the new backpack (a hand-me-down from some generous friends of ours here). Also observe the Penn State fans--like Father like son!

Precious moments with Papa! Strong loving arms of a Father...what a picture of our heavenly Father holding us as we rest peacefully in His arms.
Taking after his Mama--a theology student. Curious, a learner...this boy is quite a student!

"I miss you all! Come visit!"

God Gave Grandpa 90 Years!

Psalm 61.5 "You have given me the heritage of those who fear your name."
I love my grandpa! God has blessed him with many years as you can see from the blaze. I wish I had been there to celebrate! What a faithful man. You can read his memoirs by clicking the link to the left "Roger's remembrances." God has let him see his children's children's children. May he live to see many more!

I love my family! Thanks for the pics, Sarah and Uncle Keith! Love you all! J

Elijah is 6 Months!

Look at this big boy--he's growing by leaps and bounds! I feel like he grew up overnight! He is trying to eat rice here for the first time. He doesn't really like rice cereal, so we'll try the real thing.

Here is a common expression of Elijah. He is teething and likes to say "Mgg...mmmgggg" while making this face.

"How beautiful are the feet of those who bring good news." May Elijah Samuel one day be the messenger of the Lord in bringing the good news about Jesus to others. Look at those toes!

These are precious moments I treasure up in my heart. Elijah puts his little hand there and rests so sweetly. It was quite a tricky thing taking this picture by myself putting my left arm up and trying to get the right angle--without waking him up!

Lord, thank you for our boy and the joy of raising him!

Who can resist a sleeping baby. Is he a baby anymore? He seems like a big boy, with his own thoughts and ideas....except when he cries. Then I think, "You're such a baby!"

This guy is so full of joy and laughter. It is just making our hearts melt to hear him laugh. On Nov. 8th, his 6 month birthday, I got to put on his new little outfit (saved from gifts in the U.S.). We then went to the ladies' retreat and everyone was glad to see him!

He is becoming his own little person. Everyone says it goes fast, so I am going to soak in every moment. At first I used to not want to blog pictures of Elijah because I was afraid it would become the "Elijah blog", not the Becker blog. Yet, I now am thinking, "Hey, these are precious moments that I want to share with my friends and family afar. Why should I keep these pictures to myself?" I hope it is okay...now I understand why mothers put so much about their kids on their blogs. Who can resist?!
Mama and baby. This week was the first time I left Elijah with a baby-sitter. I cried when I left! After being with him almost constantly for 6 months straight, it was quite a separation for me. Yet I also felt so strange, "Where is your baby?" When people asked me I almost burst into tears again. At first you think, "When am I going to have my own time?" but now I know it will come all too quickly. I will just enjoy these moments and praise God for each day.

I love sharing this boy with Nate! What a blessing!

Well, folks, that was a lot of pictures of Elijah. You are free to skim past them, but this is a big part of my life now, so why should I keep him to myself! I'll admit it--I'm a crazy mom and I'm crazy about our boy! Praise God for 6 months--a healthy boy!

Recently--Random

Nate's high school music students just had a performance on Friday in his new band room. They did a great job! Mr. Becker himself even performed with the class on his trumpet using mute for "Pachabell's Canon." Lovely! I was so proud of him! The most fun for Elijah was seeing his papa play the drums. I've been really enjoying getting to know the Cebuano ladies more this year! They love Elijah--calling him "Upaw" "Calbo" or bald. See if you can spot him in the picture! We don't want that little white head to burn in the sun!

Elijah loves his papa. He wants to be just like daddy! Look at those shoes--silly boy! Precious.

Elijah loves time with mama in the rocking chair. After his morning nap I always teach him to spend time in God's Word daily. I want him to be able to say along with Timothy "From Infancy I have known the Scriptures."

P.S.!! Elijah has a new cousin! Caleb Andrew was born on October 30th in Ohio to Nate's sister, Jessica and her husband, Tim. Praise the Lord!

A Birthday, A Funeral, and Our Boy

Last Sunday, the 12th, was my birthday. I didn't think it would be a very good one, since I had plans to attend a funeral. However, God, and His people, surprised me! That morning at 4 a.m. I heard my doorbell ring and singing. "It can't be Christmas carolers!" I thought. Then I heard remembered--"It's my birthday! They're singing for me!" How sweet! I went down and was blessed by the love of my Filipino friends. They did everything to make me feel special (even notice the little house on the coffee table made from cardboard by the 10-year-old Donabel! How creative and resourceful!). Praise the Lord!
That afternoon was my first time to a Filipino funeral. It was interesting how everyone piled in these vehicles. There was a Catholic mass and then everyone just followed the coffin to the tomb.
This is the tomb that was built on Tuesday. Why not on Monday? Because Lin-Lin didn't have the money to pay for it on Monday. The body will sit in your house until you find the money to pay for the making of this tomb. Then it needs to dry before you can bury your dead.
This is a very sad picture, but I must put it here so you can remember to PRAY for Lin-Lin and her five children. I will never forget her little daugher crying and wailing, "Papa! Papa!" as they put him in the tomb. Very sad. That is her oldest boy peering into the coffin there as they look at him one last time.

To end on a good note, I will post a few pictures from last week of Elijah. He loves that baby in the mirror! "Who is that handsome guy?"
PRECIOUS moments with Papa! We must teach him the Bible stories even from infancy. May our boy always be hungry to learn God's Word.
Elijah is learning to sit by himself--well with a lot of pillows too.
Here is the fam! Maybe I can put this up as our new profile pic with Elijah in the middle now. Thank you for your prayers for us!

Elijah Eats and Shares

What a special boy! Elijah is growing fast. This Wednesday he will be 5 months! I had to hurry up and get the clothes out of the 3-6 month pile before he outgrew them! Continue to pray for us as parents and for Elijah, that one day he will let people know that "Yahweh is God".
Finally I got out some rice cereal for Elijah to try. This was his first day to try "real food."
Papa's first time to feed Elijah: "Papa! What is this strange thing you are doing? I'm not so sure about this...."
"Hmmm, this tastes so plain and flaky! Yikes!"
While Elijah was still in the womb, the Kindergarteners gave these beautiful butterflies to him. Now we are giving them to the little children who just lost their daddy. The verse is in Cebuano, which translated says, "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; theh old has gone, the new has come!" (2 Corinthians 5.17)

Our Visitors from the U.S.--Mr. and Mrs. S!

We were so blessed this month to have some very special visitors come to stay with us from the U.S.--I fondly call them Mr. and Mrs. S! I have known their family my whole life and am very good friends also with their daughter (Trisha was our FIRST visitor to the Philippines in April of 2007). What a wonderful gift to have them come stay with us and to be able to share with them our ministry, our life, our friends and this beautiful country--the Philippines! Saturday we took them to sea on a boat trip. Since the boat held 40 people we invited some very special Filipino friends with us. For most of them it was their first time on a boat and even their first time ever off the island! They were very excited indeed!
Aw! Look at these three! Lord, you are so gracious and loving toward us!
This is also Elijah's first time to sea. It is fun to have visitors because it gives us a chance to do fun things too! I tried to keep Elijah out of the sun all day--that thing can burn even me pretty badly. Thankfully he stayed puti--white.

I had to have a little photo shoot, of course. Here we are--the three Beckers at sea!
And here is my friend, Emi. We are like sisters now and our boys are destined to be friends! How fun to share in the sea together.
Tah-dah! We love having fun together in God's creation. . This was the first vacation Emi's family ever got to take all together (besides the adventure we took them on last year to the waterfall).
Mr. S enjoying some coconut milk--well, not really. He decided he is not a "fan" of that drink, but he looks tropical, doesn't he? I said he kind of looks like a banana in that hammock! What a fun guy! As my dad said when he was visiting, "AH, this is the life!"

Visitors to the Mountain and Market

Sunday we went to a rural church to see a B.T. project. It was a first-time experience for them and for the Filipino friends we brought from the city. Praise the Lord we were able to get a car and a driver to take us so we didn't have to ride the bus!
Look at that view of the Philippines! Isn't that lovely! This is what we were able to drive through and around on our way to the mountain.
Here are the wonderful "Ma-Sa" people! We brought James in the front there so he could get a vision for God's work in the mountain.
Elijah and I took Mrs. S to the market so she could experience the many sights and smells of the Philippines. Elijah was just loving all the new experiences there. It was also his first time to the market.

Here is the daily food of the Filipino people--Rice! There is one word for cooked rice, one word for uncooked rice and one word for rice in the field. I'm sure there are other words too, but I don't know them yet.
Look at all that tropical fruit! Yum! We tried to buy lots so they could taste the unforgettable flavors of the delicious fresh fruit found here in the Philippines.
Here is a typical street scene. Me and Elijah kind of stand out when we go around. Elijah helps me make lots of friends. (We have to keep the hot sun off his little white head!)
What a blessing Mr. and Mrs. S were able to bring this seat over for us from the U.S. This will come in very handy as I can cook or type emails while Elijah jumps! Also they brought a little bike helmet so I can ride around with Elijah (we look very unusual doing that here!).

We were so sad to see Mr. and Mrs. S leave. The room was empty when they left, but we were SO glad they came to bless us with their presence! What a wonderful gift to have visitors such as them to the Philippines and to our home! Thank you, Lord, and thank you Mr. and Mrs. S for visiting us!! We love you!