I wish I had a picture of Nate riding Joseph to our house for lunch that day on the front of his bike. So precious! Off they went, and I met them at home. While I cooked some lunch, Nate gave Joseph his first trumpet lesson. He is really bright and loved his lesson! (Nate is such a great teacher!)
He also asked if he could borrow (hulam) my bike. It is a little big, but he thought it was pretty cool! He kept going back and forth on our street.
I really had one thing available for lunch--pasta. This seems like a plain and simple meal, but to Joseph, apparently, it was as though I had set out a plate of tofu or sushi or something totally foreign. He was very polite, but it was obvious he thought our food was strange.
I was trying to figure out what he likes! After all, he must be really hungry! I was sorry to say we had no rice (unheard of here) and I finally realized that all my fancy food was just too foreign to him. If all you ever eat is plain white rice and plain bread, everything else that seems simple to me like pasta, will seem too much for him.
In this photo you can see we found something he liked--plain rolls (with no jam or butter). He also drank some milk.
This week I was sure to buy a whole bag of white rice in case Joseph came back. Sure enough, he came to me asking for work. I had a job ready for him to do and he invited his friend Justin. They worked away, and then I gave them food, money and I sent Joseph home to his family with the bag of rice. I am really learning about the kids from those two boys and also from the Filipinos at our church. (We still have lots to learn!)
Joseph has 7 siblings and they are really poor. He has come to our house more than once asking for food or work. Some people in the area will send their kids out for those things, but it is so sad to me and I am still trying to understand it. Justin's parents both died when he was young, so his older brother is trying to support him and the others. I asked if they had money for their school and they said yes, but I think sometimes they miss school.
Maybe someday I will get to meet Joseph's mom and even maybe his dad (but that is another story). I just know that when Joseph works, he is a hard worker and he is so sweet and polite. I had some kids' music (scripture verses on tape) playing while he worked, so hopefully he learned some more truth about Jesus.
1 comment:
J,
What a cute story! I especially love the part about the pasta. It totally made me laugh!! I pray that the Lord will bless you & Nate and the Church as you do this Christmas project. What a wonderful idea.
Lots of love,
T
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